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Kote IsaevBeing "fat" is a crime in this society, almost worldwide, especially for women. And this happens not just in the ballet. <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/may/28/shes-good-but-shes-big-my-years-as-a-fat-ballerina" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/may/28/shes-good-but-shes-big-my-years-as-a-fat-ballerina</a><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/fat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fat</a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ballet" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ballet</a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/beauty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#beauty</a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/beautyStandards" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#beautyStandards</a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fatphobia</a>

Beatroz looking 4 work🩷💜💙 ✊🇵🇸Hoy es el <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/D%C3%ADaContraLaGordofobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#DíaContraLaGordofobia</a> y lo que muchas veces oímos como "preocupación por nuestra salud" no son sólo más que prejuicios y discriminación hacia los cuerpos no normativos porque no entramos en los cánones de belleza actuales.<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/gordofobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#gordofobia</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dise%C3%B1ogr%C3%A1fico" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#diseñográfico</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fatphobia</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/graphicdesign" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#graphicdesign</a>

A Sweet Gentleman1/2 The only thing I retain from the Oscars is that most actresses are not healthy-looking. Just look at their shoulders, their arms... They're not "slim", they're underweight.<a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fatphobia</a> is so clearly the norm in the cinema industry and it's so obviously related to patriarchal domination over women's bodies, I can't believe we still tolerate it.<a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/oscar" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#oscar</a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/AcademyAwards" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AcademyAwards</a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#patriarchy</a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#misogyny</a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/WomensRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#WomensRights</a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/cinema" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#cinema</a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/film" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#film</a>

Prism & PenComments like, “You’d be so handsome if you lost weight,” masquerade as compliments but feel like daggers. They reinforce the idea that my worth is contingent on shrinking myself to fit someone else’s ideal. <a href="https://buff.ly/3CUunnK" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://buff.ly/3CUunnK</a><a href="https://stranger.social/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LGBTQ</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/BodyShaming" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BodyShaming</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/Fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Fatphobia</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#MentalHealth</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Gay</a>

Alex Ștefănescu<a href="https://chaos.social/tags/fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fatphobia</a> discussed on the Overthink podcast: <a href="https://yewtu.be/watch?v=JcC7ZO9HOhM" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://yewtu.be/watch?v=JcC7ZO9HOhM</a>( <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/invidious" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#invidious</a> link, it's like YouTube but without ads)The episode features Dr. Kate Manne, philosopher focusing on moral and feminist philosophy. It discuses question of ethics, accessibility, justice and follows the thread that links fatphobia with racism, misogyny, classism.I loved listening to this episode, I really recommend it. Especially if you feel fatphobia is a lesser political issue - it's not.

Sheru (she/her)Afternoon ponderings today:We CANNOT have legit conversations about the harm of fast fashion until we deal with fat-phobia in clothing.(I'm not here for your spicy, puritanical and fatphobic takes, I block liberally and move on with my day).<a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/Fatshion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Fatshion</a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/Fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Fatphobia</a>

Barry Deutsch<a class="hashtag" href="https://bsky.app/search?q=%23PoliCartoon" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#PoliCartoon</a>: The Absent Fatso <a class="hashtag" href="https://bsky.app/search?q=%23FatAcceptance" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FatAcceptance</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://bsky.app/search?q=%23Fatphobia" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Fatphobia</a> There's a link to a blogpost and a transcript in replies.

BroadwaybabytoAwhile back I went to a specialist for unexplained & painful lower leg swelling. His diagnosis?“Maybe your legs are just getting fat.”Horrified…I asked how many people gain weight ONLY in their calves. He shrugged me off. A 🧵 on knowing your body & advocating for care This doctor did NO tests before deciding it was weight gain. Wouldn’t discuss it with me further & wouldn’t permit me a second opinion. I went home completely dejected and also worried because I KNEW something was wrong. For the next few days I elevated my legs as much as possible and tried to gently massage them to see if it helped. They just kept getting bigger. Eventually they started weeping (fluid was seeping out of my skin) and my ankles were dislocating from the pressure. So I went to the ER. I was actually nervous about going because I could only imagine what that doctor had put in my chart. Thankfully I had a doctor who took the swelling very seriously and ordered a wide range of tests (and immediately put me on bed rest to protect my ankles) Turns out it was a combination of third spacing from my MCAS (when the fluid doesn’t stay in the vascular system & leaks out into the tissues - can be a big issue if you have POTS as well) and low albumin. Dangerously low albumin. Needless to say I was suffering from malnutrition due to my extensive GI issues and that was causing the swelling. It most definitely wasn’t weight gain. I was underweight with the exception of my legs. I never knew that low albumin could cause painful swelling like that - nor did I even think that I was suffering from malnutrition. But with both POTS & MCAS it makes sense. Our digestive systems are controlled by the autonomic nervous system (the system malfunctioning when you have POTS) so it’s not uncommon to experience vomiting, diarrhea & other gastric complaints. MCAS only compounds the issue by limiting the foods you can tolerate and also causing vomiting and diarrhea. The two conditions make getting adequate nutrition a challenge - especially if you’re on the severe end of the spectrum I’m very grateful to the doctor who figured it out and helped me get homecare so I could get proper nutrition & stay off my feet while the swelling was at its worst. But it took a LOT of courage to go to the ER after being so rudely dismissed. This is a lesson in the importance of knowing your own body & having an advocate with you whenever possible. I KNEW something serious was wrong but I had no one with me to challenge the first dismissive doctor. And he was completely unwilling to listen to me. Don’t ever feel like you can’t get a second opinion or go to a different hospital if you feel you aren’t being taken seriously. And don’t ever apologize for advocating for your health. If you don’t have someone who can go with you - try & phone or video a friend. Lastly can we please start listening more to patients? We know our bodies best and when you dismiss us it causes not only physical damage - but emotional damage too. You make it harder for us to seek care in the future.Patients shouldn’t be dismissed without any tests being run. Had I not gone to the ER I could have ended up with life threatening cardiac issues from the electrolyte & fluid imbalance. A simple lab test would have confirmed the diagnosis had the first doctor cared to do them. This experience was also an excellent reminder of the far reaching effects of dysautonomia & MCAS. It’s important to be as educated as possible in these conditions & the strange downstream complications they can cause. And remember dismissal & gaslighting is often far worse for marginalized individuals. There’s a LOT of bias in medicine. If you’re someone in a position of privilege please call it out when you see it - and offer to be an ally to those who need support. Allies save lives <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/chronicillness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#chronicillness</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/gaslighting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#gaslighting</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#disability</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disabilityjustice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#disabilityjustice</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/advocacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#advocacy</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/covidcautious" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#covidcautious</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/covidisnotover" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#covidisnotover</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/spoonies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#spoonies</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/ableism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ableism</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fatphobia</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/MCAS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#MCAS</a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/POTS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#POTS</a>

ladychelseaofthevoid<a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fatphobia</a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/fuckyourrules" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fuckyourrules</a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/abortedfetusdiet" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#abortedfetusdiet</a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/society" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#society</a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/byebye" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#byebye</a> society: lose weight, fatassme: ok*dumps the burden of societal expectations off my back* society: wait no me: get in the bye bye box, status quo ho

Denny Kozlov<a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/Introduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Introduction</a>: <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/retired" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#retired</a>, child of <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/nyc" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nyc</a>, grandchild of <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/jewish" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#jewish</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/leftist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#leftist</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/immigrants" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#immigrants</a>; <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/AntiFascist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AntiFascist</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/AntiRacist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AntiRacist</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/AntiTERF" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AntiTERF</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/Queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Queer</a>, out since 1979; <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/genderfluid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#genderfluid</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/genderqueer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#genderqueer</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#trans</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/Gaymer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Gaymer</a> playing <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/ElderScrollsOnline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ElderScrollsOnline</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/Fat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Fat</a> person defying societal <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/fatphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fatphobia</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/Disabled" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Disabled</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/spoonie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#spoonie</a>, fan of <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/cannabis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#cannabis</a> for <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/chronicpain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#chronicpain</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#neurodivergent</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ActuallyAutistic</a> Music loves include <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/SteelyDan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SteelyDan</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/FrankZappa" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FrankZappa</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/TheWho" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#TheWho</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/DavidBowie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#DavidBowie</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/punk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#punk</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/disco" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#disco</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/jazz" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#jazz</a> <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/opera" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#opera</a> more Avid <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/foodie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#foodie</a> and <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/homecook" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#homecook</a>, <a href="https://mstdn.games/tags/omnivore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#omnivore</a>

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