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Andy B (she/they)Dear Deities of Polyamory,How big does a polycule have to be before SOMEONE in it enjoys cleaning? And what do I need to do to have such a person sent my way?-Sick of Cleaning Up After This Many Supposed Adults<a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a>

NaraMoore ⛩️👻八尺様👻⛩️ at Fedi<a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/ScribesAndMakers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ScribesAndMakers</a> 12, Shameless self-promotion day.For Love of a Konbini IdolJoin Ume's family as their relationship develops. In a creepy world where “love” never dies.Volume 3 is now in serialization.At: <a href="https://archiveofourown.org/works/52770025" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://archiveofourown.org/works/52770025</a> <a href="https://www.pixiv.net/novel/series/11417104" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.pixiv.net/novel/series/11417104</a><a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Yuri" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Yuri</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Romance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Romance</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Trans</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/TransFem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#TransFem</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/TransMasc" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#TransMasc</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Asexuality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Asexuality</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Otherkin" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Otherkin</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/SapphicBooks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SapphicBooks</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/LightNovel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LightNovel</a> <a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/lgbtqbookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@lgbtqbookstodon</a> <a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/bookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@bookstodon</a> <a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/sapphicbooks" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@sapphicbooks</a>

Dame-Armiger Kali Ranya ⚔️🐈Saw a mention of <a href="https://vtuber.house/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> pride flags, and looked up what designs are out there...Wow ok I'm going back to monogamy

Joscelyn TranspiringEvery bi cis woman who is married or a long-term relationship with a cis man that I've tried giving the benefit of a doubt and dated or chatted with on a dating app has suddenly had to stop seeing or talking to me when the man they're with gets insecure and expresses "a boundary" that she can't do anything physical with another person or meet up with them. Like...bi ladies, leave your insecure, sexist man and go kiss girls already. A man controlling your body is a man controlling your body and should be kicked in the balls and left to be lonely and butt hurt by himself. ARGH.To be clear, it is absolutely understandable that when people start venturing into non-monogamy, they may need to take things step by step, or even stop for a time. But a boundary is not "you can't do X," a boundary is "if you do X, I'll do Y." That's not a boundary and not a way to do non-monogamy or polyamory!!!<a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/nonmonogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nonmonogamy</a>

Your Autistic Life FR/EN/ES"People in non-monogamous relationships are as happy as monogamous couples, but…... there's a serious catch."The "serious catch" is society mononormatvity. Society likes to look down, and discriminate against people who live under a consensual non-monogamy arrangement.<a href="https://mast.yourautisticlife.com/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://mast.yourautisticlife.com/tags/nonmonogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nonmonogamy</a> <a href="https://mast.yourautisticlife.com/tags/mononormativity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#mononormativity</a> <a href="https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/03/people-in-non-monogamous-relationships-are-as-happy-as-monogamous-couples-but/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/03/people-in-non-monogamous-relationships-are-as-happy-as-monogamous-couples-but/</a>

transform-socialI recently finished reading "The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet" by Becky Chambers. It was a quick and fun read. I liked the thoughts on war and peace, the criticism of fundamentalist faith, the union of multiple alien species in the Galactic Commons (GC), and the fact that they favored peaceful coexistence over profit in the end. The descriptions of the polyamorous culture of the Aandrisk (including the concepts of chosen families) were also quite heartwarming.Given how often this book is recommended in the context of Solarpunk, I was a bit disappointed that it did not offer any new economic concepts. The characters still work for credits and buy stuff and even privileges with credits.<a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Bookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Bookstodon</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/SolarPunk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SolarPunk</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>

ELLIOTTCABLEHi! New instance, new pinned post.Send me cool people to follow (or introduce yourself!)- leftists - functional programmers, 'spcly <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/OCaml" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#OCaml</a> folks - <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/Queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Queer</a> mfers, <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BDSM</a>, or <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> - fans of <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/SystemicGames" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SystemicGames</a> (<a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/Factorio" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Factorio</a>, <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/RimWorld" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#RimWorld</a>, and the like)come @ me :transHaskell:

Dame-Armiger Kali Ranya ⚔️🐈What media have you read/seen/heard that acknowledges polyamory exists, especially portrayed in a positive way? Fiction and music particularly?"Oh no, my long time romantic partner has feelings for another person, it's all over" is such a pervasive trope, you'd think it as much a law of nature as "objects fall toward Earth when dropped"<a href="https://vtuber.house/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://vtuber.house/tags/music" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#music</a> <a href="https://vtuber.house/tags/fiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fiction</a>

Discovering Polyamory<a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a> is not a set of rules. It's more of a philosophy. A way to better understand our relationships and what they should look like.    To be polyamorous is to know that you want to escape the expected social constructs that have been built around relationships, actively do the work to discover what a relationship means to you, and ethically build that with the people who bring you love.

Ashley LarkYou might consider following me if you're searching for these tags<a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#trans</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#queer</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transjoy</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transfem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transfem</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transfemme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transfemme</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transgender</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nonbinary</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#queer</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/sapphic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#sapphic</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/pansexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#pansexual</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/lgbt" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#lgbt</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/genderfluid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#genderfluid</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/genderqueer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#genderqueer</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transmakeup" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transmakeup</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transproud" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transproud</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transpride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transpride</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transgenderwoman" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#transgenderwoman</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/polyam" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyam</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/enm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#enm</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#kink</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/kinky" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#kinky</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/sexpositive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#sexpositive</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/progressive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#progressive</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/leftist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#leftist</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/stl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#stl</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/stlouis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#stlouis</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/cars" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#cars</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/vw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#vw</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/gti" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#gti</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/mk7" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#mk7</a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/autos" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#autos</a>

Discovering PolyamoryIn <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>, some traditional labels need to be redefined. But if someone refuses any kind of definition whatsoever, it's usually a sign they want to be free to do whatever they want without taking other people's needs of safety into consideration.

JonobieA partner shared this with me about <a href="https://social.coop/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> -- <a href="https://yalereview.org/article/brandy-jensen-polycrisis" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://yalereview.org/article/brandy-jensen-polycrisis</a>I cackled out loud at the line "separated from my nesting partner to go solo poly, although lately I’ve been thinking I’m actually more of a relationship anarchist" as a way poly people talk (legit). But, it also completely misses the mark in so many ways. Notably, it doesn't talk about either of the things that ALWAYS come up in my circles about the "gifts of being polyamorous" (cont)

Elise 🏳️‍⚧️So... I'm poly now? I'm so excited to explore this part of myself and watch my partner do the same!Anyway, all that to say, if you're queer and wanted to flirt with me, my feelings wouldn't be hurt 😜 <a href="https://theatl.social/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#poly</a> <a href="https://theatl.social/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://theatl.social/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#queer</a>

Jordi (Flopsome Opossum)AND THESE JACKASSES (Startrixburst) ❤️ <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a>Artist: abbytabby Source: <a href="https://derpibooru.org/images/3236676" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://derpibooru.org/images/3236676</a>

Discovering PolyamoryIt's okay to be excited about exploring <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>. Those first steps can be intoxicating. But it's important to remember that it's common for one partner to want to move faster than the other. When you place too much on someone too fast, that's called "polybombing".

Mx. Luna CorbdenMy heart is sailing with joy over the kinds of relationships they're depicting. And queer in ways you don't often see depicted.(In some ways reminding me of my Seattle days.)<a href="https://defcon.social/tags/BlackSails" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BlackSails</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/Review" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Review</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/Netflix" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Netflix</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>

Mx. Luna CorbdenHoly crap it's not just a triad. It's an entire damn pirate polycule!<a href="https://defcon.social/tags/BlackSails" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BlackSails</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/Review" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Review</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/Netflix" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Netflix</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>

Mx. Luna CorbdenI love that Black Sails has a whole poly triad intrigue and romance arc. So much undeveloped potential in that kind of love triangle with nary an overused trope to be seen.<a href="https://defcon.social/tags/BlackSails" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BlackSails</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/Review" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Review</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/Netflix" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Netflix</a> <a href="https://defcon.social/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>

Steve Dustcircle 🌹The Right to Practice <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a>Southwestern Law Review, forthcoming 2025 13 Pages Posted: 6 Feb 2025 Ann E. TweedyUniversity of <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/SouthDakota" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SouthDakota</a> School of Law; <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/BostonUniversity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#BostonUniversity</a> - School of LawThe essay explores (1) the recent ordinances in Massachusetts cities and towns allowing for multi-partner <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/domesticpartnerships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#domesticpartnerships</a> and (2) the ordinances in cities in <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Massachusetts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Massachusetts</a> and <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/California" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#California</a> protecting against <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/discrimination" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#discrimination</a> based on family structure. <a href="https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=5112311" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=5112311</a>

Leather Cub Andrew AûIt finally came it!!! I'm going to page through this to see if I find anything useful in any capacity. I'm a <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/childfree" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#childfree</a> <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/Neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Neurodivergent</a> <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/kinkster" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#kinkster</a> <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/LeatherBoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LeatherBoy</a> <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/pagan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#pagan</a> researching <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/Witchcraft" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Witchcraft</a>. I support <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/Leftist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Leftist</a> <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/Activism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Activism</a> rooted in <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/Intersectionality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Intersectionality</a>. I'm also open to <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>. I acknowledge my <a href="https://4bear.com/tags/privileged" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#privileged</a> identities as a cis, white, able-bodied man.Has anyone else tried reading through this yet? If not I'll try to post my thoughts and any inspiration.

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